This is terrible... The life of an enlisted soldier is not easy, especially w.r.t. having a normal relationship when you are being deployed for months to a year at a time. Many soldiers joined with good intentions to serve their country. Other did it for the benefits, e.g. pay for school, provide for family, etc... A dating site for military personnel might sound funny to a civilian, but if you think about it, it probably serves a real need. pharoahhalfdead is absolutely right, this is a failure of human decency. These people should be ashamed of themselves.