This is so painful to read...
What do you want? Training to be a technician who will know how to work with/fix what someone else designed and created or be the one who designed and created? And, NO; writing a library for reading data from a remote server or local file or collating some data or designing a wonderful GUI is not the kind of design/creation that I'm talking about. I'm talking about who created the new material that enables your multi core computer chip to run at 2+GHz and use under 100 Watts, or the people who came up with things like FFT, R-Trees, DFMSP, BFSMP algorithms that you can find prepackaged in a library or the people who figured out how DNA works, how information is encoded in neurons and their synapses...
There is a huge difference.
Graduate School is not meant to be easy, straight forward or convenient. It's meant to be challenging and demanding so that all those who would not cut it (be it because they lack the natural talents or because they lack the dedication required) are weeded out and only the best of the crop makes it through. After all, I don't want someone who is just as good as I am wasting resources coming up with the new science and technology of the future. I want someone better than me so that all the resources allocated to it are more efficiently spent.
Do instructors suck? Yes, some of them do. Do you know why? Because if it were up to them they would not waste their time teaching a bunch of mediocre students who are not interested in real learning but only in being given recipes that allow them to do the bare minimum to make as much money with as little work as possible. Why do you think that there are so many international gradstudents?
Bill Gates has the vision of a college drop. Does he even know anything about gradschool first hand? How can he made comments about graduate education here vs asia when the best gradschools anywhere are here? How many americans do you see moving to Asia for grad school? How about the other way around? Internationals don't all come to gradschool here to stay. A large number returns to their homecountry; they came because this is where the highest level research is conducted. I'm not saying that the rest of the world sucks, but this is where most of the cutting edge research is conducted.
And for the record:
1) I'm not American.
2) I did attend gradschool in the US.
3) I was among those who did not cut it when it came to finishing my PhD.
4) Unlike most of my classmates in gradshool I did enjoy teaching very much.
5) I work in industry now.