It's possible to use an Logitech Harmony remote with an Amazon Alexa Dot to give you at least some voice control. https/www.logitech.com/en-us/product/harmony-elite
They also have a phone app that may be easier to use than a traditional hard button remote. You would use voice, phone and hard remotes in combination with the Logitech stuff.
You could also use the Savant Pro Remote https/www.savant.com/pro-remote
Both could be used for more extensive smart home features that might be great for you. The Savant may require a custom installer to get the most flexible use out of it.