I can't be sure, but my guess why you think that is you - like many - have be taught the contemptuous practice of illegitimizing people's opinions based on things like their gender, race, and orientation rather than confront their arguments on their own merits.
I'm a woman, and no, my various lives experiences does not make me particularly fearful of this tech. While Mark makes a decent point that much could be done on an OS level to make them safer, I simply would never want to see innovation and helpful tech in 99.9% of cases be shuttered because of bad people doing bad things.
It'd be akin to thinking we should shut down comment sections to protect against bullying, social media to protect against stalking, and mass public transportation to cut down on physical assaults. Like obviously doing that would help, but the trade off ultimately isn't worth it, and there's countless other steps that could be taken to protect women and allow innocent people to have nice things.