ebalong,
I 've used 2D AutoCad about 20 years and in the last three, increasingly 3D CAD, including Sketchup and am now learning Solidworks.
[Dell Precision T5400 / Xeon QC x5460 3.16GHz / 12GB RAM (DDR2 667) / Quadro FX4800 (1.5GB) / WD RE4 / PS 875W/ Win 7 Ult 64 ]
It seems to me that you have a very strong foundation computer for 3D CAD- and games- except for the GPU. I recommend a look at this article, "How To Build A Faster 3D CAD PC" which summarizes the jobs of the various components in a CAD workstation >
http

/blog.grabcad.com/2011/07/how-to-build-a-faster-3d-cad-pc/
The Intel 4000 integrated video seems to perform better in benchmarks tests than one would expect, bettering a number of dedicated graphics cards, and much of the task you mention having run badly are CPU speed oriented- especially rendering- which also involves core-count, but you will be amazed at the difference with a good dedicated graphics card. Autodesk lists "recommended" and "certified" cards for their applications >
AutoCad 2013 >
http
/usa.autodesk.com/adsk/servlet/syscert?siteID=123112&id=18844534&linkID=9240617&results=1&stype=graphic&product_group=3&release=2013&os=8192&manuf=all&opt=0
and you can download Autodesk tuned drivers for their applications>
It may be useful to consider the recommended cards for Revit, which is 3D and rendering intensive >
http
/usa.autodesk.com/adsk/servlet/syscert?siteID=123112&id=18844534&linkID=9240617&results=1&stype=graphic&product_group=3&release=2013&os=8192&manuf=all&opt=0
Notice that Autodesk stresses workstation cards like AMD/ATI Firepro but especially Quadro. Geforce are listed, as the GPU's are the same as Quadro, but are configured -some say "hobbled" to emphasize game performance and maintain much higher prices / profits, but in extreme workstations usage, Quadros do things that Geforces won't, and this is due to very particularized drivers. run my Quadro TX 4800 with a driver especially for Solidworks 2010 x64 , but I also use Adobe CS4 Master Collection and I could use is a driver just for that!
However, unless you are doing these extreme tasks, and/or very large files, complex assemblies, etc. requiring super-precision and certain sub-applications, you might try a Geforce that is similar to a higher end Quadro. One of the cards on both these lists - though not checked on the "Recommended" or Certified" is the nvidia Geforce GTX 285 (1GB), and which I used for about 2 years. This card uses the same GPU as the Quadro 5800- originally a $3,500 Card (with 4GB RAM), with a 512-bit memory bandwidth, 240 CUDA cores, and is just amazing in 3D. Of course as a gaming oriented card, it is very good at that. The drivers for Geforce emphasize frame rates while Quadro drivers stress accuracy- capable of up to 64X anti-aliasing- and single and double point precision. I haven't experienced it, but apparently there are some sub-applications in CAD like the multiple viewpoints in Solidworks that will not work or are dodgy on a Geforce. I had problems with bizarre shadow artifacts in Sketchup until I changed to a Quadro.
You might consider trying a used GTX 285 off eBay ($60-80 these days)- and consider the EGVA 2GB version -these are running about $100-120 now. My used 1GB ($140 then) was completely reliable for 2 years. Keep in mind the GTX 285 takes a lot of power-204W off of 2X6 pin power connectors, but your 650W PS should handle it. If there's enough power, you can also try 2X the 1GB in SLI and the number of cores and memory bandwidth may run faster than a single 2GB. For evaluation, download and run the free 30-day trial version of Passmark Performance Test on your current integrated configuration, change to the GTX 285, and run again. Then, install the Autodesk driver. Try the games you play and record the frame rates before and after. I believe you'll see amazing improvements in pans, orbits, and zooms and games' frame rates.
If the GTX 285 works for you, and you got a good deal, and really want to fly 3D, you can probably resell the 285 for at or near your cost, and then try a GTX 580 3GB- with 512 cores, GDDR5 memory and a 192 GB/s memory bandwidth.
Cheers,
BambiBoom