Some works, the rest is gray/locked. Tried Manual sync, isn't working, keeps messing up. Now I can't even sync at all. Apply button in gone on iTunes so is sync.
have you tried right clicking on your device in itunes and clicking transfer purchases? usually it transfers stuff from device to itunes but in this case it should do the oppisite. hope i helped!
There is a step by step instruction on How to transfer iPhone to Mac after iOS 5 upgrade.
Hope it can do you a favor.
I have learned a way to transfer iPhone 4 to mac, just free download a ******** iPhone to Mac Transfer, and it is easy to do that just with three steps.
run program, connext iPhone to mac=>>checked transferred files=>>click "export checked files to local"