@WYNKOOP2000 I totally agree with you there. I have the Bose right now after breaking my Sony M3s, but my brother has a pair which gave me a fair head to head. The Bose, in my opinion, has the better sound quality, despite not having the codecs that Sony does such as LDAC.
In terms of ANC, they are very very close, but I'd say the Sony's take the trophy here. Battery is also 100% better on the Sony's with about a third extra play time. Tech features are another feature that the Sonys excel at too.
However, with all that said, I still prefer my recently purchased Bose QC35IIs as the sound is unrivalled. The Sony headphones are on the bassy side which muddy the experience for me, it doesn't sound natural like on the Bose. Also, the highs are too sharp on the Sonys and mids are always being drowned out by either the bass or highs to the extent that I felt like hearing some songs for the first time again on my Bose headphones.
Long story short:
Bose = sound QUALITY and good ANC
Sony = Even BETTER ANC, Better battery life and techy features