I'm a sleep writer — here's what I do when I can't sleep


Mar 21, 2022
One of the best ways to get to sleep is having an orgasm. This fact is almost uniformly ignored when people discuss how to sleep better. We can thank our sex-negative society for that, but we don't have to harm ourselves by subscribing to those unfortunate superstitions. It should go without saying that one doesn't need a partner to have an orgasm and that fantasizing and porn can help potentiate an orgasm. There is a large body of knowledge in the sex-positive community about improving one's self-pleasuring game.