Please stop reviewing products you are truly bad at this. You posted no metrics on weights to arrive at your decisions but instead just gave arbitrary numbers. I actually do have both phones. The Apple phone is a hot mess. Inconsistent charging and no true dual sim functionality are huge deal breakers. However if you are in the Apple ecosystem, hands down stay Apple. That is not because the phone is any better, only that you are tied to the ecosystem.
What is the value score of a product that can expand up to 1 TB with a SD card (not 512 like you stated, you really need to be more accurate)?
What is the value of being on the road and being able to plug your phone into a TV at a hotel and pull out a fold-able keyboard and have a full office experience if needed (or play Fortnite)?
Essentially you need to list everything each phone is capable of performing and give it a score. For those items the iPhone can perform that the Note 9 can't (or Vice-Versa) you list and score those as well. Now just add up all the score results and divide by the total number of testable features and you arrive at a real metric. At the end of the day it boils down to features and price for most folks.
I am not sure if there is anything that the Max does that the Note does not do, but maybe...potentially FaceID depth... Did you even talk about Samsung Pay which works virtually anywhere there is a card scanner (unlike Apple Pay which only works where they support it)? I guess you could mention how ApplePay can be hacked...
Not to mention you awarded Apple wins in Security, oh the eye rolling was real. What makes the Note 9 face ID less secure exactly? You can indeed use bio metrics for payments on the Note 9, apparently you didn't set this up properly (or at all). From an IT security perspective I have fingerprint bio-metrics, facial ID, Iris scanning, and security code protection. What does Apple offer again?
How is the iPhone display better than the Note? The numbers don't prove that at all. Higher resolution, pixel density, real-world useage outdoors. I suppose it wins a point for being .1 inch bigger, but then you have to deal with that notch.
The ONLY areas where Apple wins would be processor power and potentially some camera shots (and that is a hard maybe at best). If you are doing camera comparisons don't forget to mention how apple prettifies its images. Sorry, but no. I don't need face smoothing. By the way, photography is part science, part subjective. Not all eyes are created equal. What you see is NOT the same as what somebody else sees in regards to hue, color saturation, etc. Scoring images should be a side by side comparison using a machine to test the results.
Bottom line is anyone can can just throw together a review, be honest and have some integrity. Your review should simply be stated "I like the Apple and here is why!".