"Orbit" is really the not the correct word to use when describing an electron and proton interacting. After all, accelerating charges radiate, and for the electron to stay in an orbit it would have to be continually accelerating (think centripetal acceleration). If an electron were to orbit in the classical physics sense, it would rapidly radiate away sufficient energy that it would crash into the proton, which of course isn't what happens. Instead, quantum mechanics is necessary to describe the system. In the parlance of quantum, supposing the electron has a definite energy it's said to be in a stationary state, or energy eigenstate (for the mathematically inclined, its wavefunction is an eigenfunction of the Hamiltonian operator). When the electron is in such an energy eigenstate it will not have a clearly defined position. In this sense it's misleading to say the electron is at any particular distance; in fact upon measurement the electron could be found at *any* distance if it's in the ground state. This indeterminate position is what gives rise to the 'electron cloud,' as it's presented in high school chemistry. What's represented here is ostensibly the average distance found when measuring an ensemble of atoms in identically prepared states (i.e. the expectation value of the position operator), and presumably only for the ground state of the hydrogen atom. By exciting the electron to a higher energy state, the expectation value of its distance from the proton increases. In the case of very high energy states (close to the ionization energy) atoms can become extremely large, even on the order of microns, or thousandths of a millimeter (these are called Rydberg atoms). In that case, the electron would be a whole lot farther away... In fact, if the above scale is correct the electron would be about 1/3 the way to the moon. So what is it that makes matter feel so solid? As it turns out, it's the electromagnetic force. This force is unfathomably large in comparison with gravity... Consider that the magnetic interaction (which is already of relativistic origin, and generally small next to Coulomb interaction) from a tiny fridge magnet can overcome the gravitational interaction with the entire earth when lifting a paperclip. Gravity only seems to dominate because there is no negative mass particle like there are negatively charged particles to cancel out positive charges, so there are long-range gravitational forces in everyday life. Isn't science great?