Indeed, these things are true. As a gamer turning 40 I look for games with a solid single player and co-operative player modes. Our group of similar aged players have a LAN set up with 12 x 24" LCDs. Just bring your console or PC and plug in. Sort of like poker night for other guys. We generally don't play on the usual servers due to the vast difference in attitude, language and game play between us and most other players. Sure, our reaction times are not the 0.14 seconds they used to be, and yes, we did start out on Pac-Man and Space Invaders, but I think the difference in game play is due to other factors, including a more collaborative approach to work (and life) within the group, not adversarial between team mates as observed from on-line gaming. The "perceived lack of sportsmanship, team play, or any kind of code of conduct" is what keeps us off-line and on our own private networks. Of course, it goes without saying, no-one in our group uses the terms owned, pwned or pwnd. Like any group of gamers, we are here to enjoy ourselves when it suits us. If that means voluntarily excluding ourselves from the wider on-line community to pursue this enjoyment, then that's what we'll do.