wait a second. some of these unfortunately irritate me as well, like all the computer-related nonsense, but only when watching a movie or series that is set in current times, like a cop show, or an er, when it's science fiction it's a different story.
2 points:
1) take the Alien saga, which you have under the "genetic memory" heading. so you're having no problem with the starships, "molecular acid", chestbursting aliens, terraforming tech, ftl travel, but you're busting their chops over genetic memory? it's called "suspension of disbelief" for a reason. well written sci-fi is generally enjoyable _despite_ the flaws and occasionally even *because* of them. otherwise you'd have to write the whole genre off as a load of bollocks and never make one again. as long as it makes for a good plot and enjoyable show, it's fine.
2) some of these flaws are absolutely necessary key plot points, e.g. in the "fantastic four" movie under the heading "invisible force field". that is the power of one of its members, the movie is about them, no IFF, no susan storm, makes fantastic three... you might be partially right when such a device is used in a different sci-fi setting, but then, see point 1).