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[citation][nom]FL[/nom]Christians should and do reach out to homosexuals with love, acceptance and forgiveness. They do not have to accept the homosexual moral view in order to do so. Remember, most Christians know that they are sinners just like anyone else and therefore do not look down on homosexuals or anyone else. In short we all need to be kind to one another even if we do not agree.[/citation]

I wish i could meet those kinds. In my exp (nothing to do with what other people tell me) most religious people are completely intolerant of others. They look down on people that don't believe what they do in a condescending manor. I don't hate religious people just the bigoted attitude and superiority complex some Christians but pretty much every Mormon i have met. But your right everyone shouldn't look down on others regardless if you consider them sinners or not just because the fact its wrong in the first place. In fact i live with a Christian who hates gays so much she shakes in hatred when she speaks of the sinners that cause the collapse of our society with their sick belief that what they do is ok. In fact thats the kind of reaction i get from 90% of the Christians and morons i talk to about the subject. Now I'm ok with what i consider their ignorance as i personally see it. People can have their opinions thats fine no one should ever try and stop that. But you have people pushing their belief system on others but stripping them of rights or at least trying to.

The people who say its a choice and giving an apples to oranges comparison make me wonder what they are thinking. Choosing to not breath is harmful and would be choosing to die for no reason. Choosing to not have relations with whatever sex you want has no harmful effects. All of which has nothing to do with being able to choose what you like which has been my only point this whole time. Why deny your self being happy with someone just because some bigot says its wrong of you to do so when there is no harm to anyone? I cant choose what i like i can of course deny my self these things but i fail yet to see why i would do that as long as it isn't harming anyone else since i actually have to say it since some idiot will come here and say something moronic like "what if you like killing people"

You like what you like you cant change that you can delude your self all you want with trying but it wont happen. I cannot consciously decide to not like something I'm sorry daleth. I can say i don't like it but i would be lieing to you and my self. In fact there are a lot of things i wish i did like. Now i can say i do like them and do these things i wished i liked and perhaps someday ill gain a tolerance for them but i will never truly like doing them. I can control an impulse to kill someone or rape someone because it is simply wrong. Thats not a good example at all of what I'm trying to say. And i do agree liking to do things that hurt other people is wrong and should be stopped but homosexuality isn't one of these things It is simply harmless.

I don't agree with or like religion but its your choice it doesn't hurt anyone else. As long as you don't try to repress others actively because of your belief there shouldn't ever be a problem.

"Homosexuals are not asking for equal rights they are asking for the special right to reform our country's family structure by marrying the same sex"

Its not a special right to marry the one you love. everyone should have the same rights family structure (if we are going to assume that means man woman and kids) has been destroyed long ago. a lot of families have a single parent. A family is a close unit of people put together by marriage. After not to many generations you cant even make the argument that it has to do with DNA since you wont share much DNA material with say your great great grandparents.

A special right would be say if they got married they would have something others couldn't have like being tax free because they are gay. its not a special right to be able to get married.
 
Sorry for double post but i missed this.

"The vast majority of Christians do not hate homosexuals and they are not "homophobes." They simply are resisting the homosexual movement's attempt to force their idea of morality on to Christianity and society."

Talk about irony if i ever heard it.
 
[citation][nom]EnFoRceR22[/nom]I wish i could meet those kinds. In my exp (nothing to do with what other people tell me) most religious people are completely intolerant of others. They look down on people that don't believe what they do in a condescending manor. I don't hate religious people just the bigoted attitude and superiority complex some Christians but pretty much every Mormon i have met. But your right everyone shouldn't look down on others regardless if you consider them sinners or not just because the fact its wrong in the first place. In fact i live with a Christian who hates gays so much she shakes in hatred when she speaks of the sinners that cause the collapse of our society with their sick belief that what they do is ok. In fact thats the kind of reaction i get from 90% of the Christians and morons i talk to about the subject. Now I'm ok with what i consider their ignorance as i personally see it. People can have their opinions thats fine no one should ever try and stop that. But you have people pushing their belief system on others but stripping them of rights or at least trying to. The people who say its a choice and giving an apples to oranges comparison make me wonder what they are thinking. Choosing to not breath is harmful and would be choosing to die for no reason. Choosing to not have relations with whatever sex you want has no harmful effects. All of which has nothing to do with being able to choose what you like which has been my only point this whole time. Why deny your self being happy with someone just because some bigot says its wrong of you to do so when there is no harm to anyone? I cant choose what i like i can of course deny my self these things but i fail yet to see why i would do that as long as it isn't harming anyone else since i actually have to say it since some idiot will come here and say something moronic like "what if you like killing people"You like what you like you cant change that you can delude your self all you want with trying but it wont happen. I cannot consciously decide to not like something I'm sorry daleth. I can say i don't like it but i would be lieing to you and my self. In fact there are a lot of things i wish i did like. Now i can say i do like them and do these things i wished i liked and perhaps someday ill gain a tolerance for them but i will never truly like doing them. I can control an impulse to kill someone or rape someone because it is simply wrong. Thats not a good example at all of what I'm trying to say. And i do agree liking to do things that hurt other people is wrong and should be stopped but homosexuality isn't one of these things It is simply harmless.I don't agree with or like religion but its your choice it doesn't hurt anyone else. As long as you don't try to repress others actively because of your belief there shouldn't ever be a problem. "Homosexuals are not asking for equal rights they are asking for the special right to reform our country's family structure by marrying the same sex"Its not a special right to marry the one you love. everyone should have the same rights family structure (if we are going to assume that means man woman and kids) has been destroyed long ago. a lot of families have a single parent. A family is a close unit of people put together by marriage. After not to many generations you cant even make the argument that it has to do with DNA since you wont share much DNA material with say your great great grandparents. A special right would be say if they got married they would have something others couldn't have like being tax free because they are gay. its not a special right to be able to get married.[/citation]


You are exactly highlighting many of the arguments I am putting forward to defend Christians.

1. Your experience of Christianity isn't Christianity. I am extremely sorry that the Christians you have come into contact with have been such terrible examples of what Christians SHOULD be. Believe me there are many wonderful Christians out there quite simply because the teachings are good. Christianity is about Love so how can that be wrong. There are just some that practice it badly and give Christians a bad name. I currently live in Georgia USA and have moved from Europe. I have been thoroughly ashamed of many Christians I have met here (that is not to say I am perfect!). You ought to look at religion by what it teaches not by the people who may or may not practice the teachings well.

2. Mormons are a NON-Christian cult. So lets not even bring them into it .... I mean the Ku Klux klan are anti-gay too but no one will bring them into a sensible debate .

3. Whether you choose to act on homosexual impulses is entirely your choice. True Christians do not deny you that. We can however say that it is wrong to and also the Church can say that it will harm your relationship with God. Whether you want to follow what the church believes is entirely your choice. However the Church was instituted by Christ 2000+ years ago and will continue to try to bring people to God whether you believe or not.

4. Doing something that makes you happy is not necessarily good or right even if it doesn't harm anyone else. What about yourself? I can lock myself in a room and jab nails into myself cursing the world if that makes me happy but in the end it isn't good for myself.

5. You say that to choose it is not harming anyone else. Maybe so. However are you 100% sure you are not harming yourself. Are you 100% sure that there is no God? Are you 100% sure the historical evidence of Christ, the 2000 years of teaching and history are in no way true? That the millions of people who followed throughout history who were far more intelligent than you or I are wrong. That in the end is also up to you. The church isn't telling you to act in a certain way. It simply puts forward advice based on the teachings of Christ and because the church and Christ loves you they hope you will follow. No one is trying to make you do anything.

6. Homosexuals want marriage but fail to understand that firstly marriage is a Christian sacrament between a man and a women. The second point is that marriage is defined as between a man and a woman. Changing that destroys part of the concept of marriage. Homosexuals can fight for equal rights without trying to define their unions as marriage If . homosexuals just wanted full rights they would be happy to call them civil unions and would be happy to leave marriage to man-woman relationships. But they are not happy until they destroy it. That is attacking the foundation of our society.
 
Honestly i don't see the issue with calling it marriage or how it would destroy anything. I can see not liking it but not allowing it i don't see it.

When i said harming anyone i did in fact mean the person when doing the act. sorry i wasn't more clear.

Actually there are many definitions of marriage your definition is in fact one of them. A union of two people would be another.

I know what you mean about Mormons i find them to be the most intolerant and self absorbed people i have ever met. I wouldn't dispute there was in fact a man named jesus who lived but the stories about a lot of it imo exaggeration and fairy tail. But like i said i have no issues with religious people i only have issues with the things that try to hold someone back because of a belief.

Going back to harming ones self you can argue with your belief that if your conduct homosexual acts you are harming your relationship with Christ or god. But thats like you said can you prove it? i cannot but nor can you there we have only our belief. Of everything i do hear about the subject from the people i consider to be true Christians and do try and help among other religions god doesn't care how you live or what you believe he simply cares about who you are and how you live your life. Not that I'm saying i believe in the god portrayal by religion but thats how i personally interpreted what I'm told about this being. To me thats really the only way it can be with out thinking they are liers (IMO) of course.

I think the talks of religion has clouded some of what i try to say. I don't mean to say im in tolerant of religious people but people in general regardless.

But to touch on #6 Christians didn't invent marriage they might have however invented what we know today as marriage. But if you ask me all a marriage is anyways is a union. Though i think it attacking the foundation of society and destroying the sanctity of marriage is only a opinion. Though your obviously entitled to it. In the end a marriage is simply a unity of two things.

To end if god would smite me (i believe my self to be a good person i try to help who i can and don't do bad to other. I do follow i strict code of moral values of right and wrong) hes not a god i would follow anyway. No one can be 100% sure of everything but I cant be apart of anything that would strip a human being of their human rights.

(i don't think someone who locks them self in a room jabbing nails in them selves cursing the world is happy)

As defined by websters

Definition of MARRIAGE

1 a (1): the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law (2): the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage

One of the many definitions listed. none of which say its exclusive to only a man and woman.
 
Lets put it this way... if I start scratching out words in the Constitution and change them so that the meaning has changed you will likely be angry and feel that I am attacking your beliefs. Same too with the definition of marriage. Even more so as marriage is a SACRED union under God to Christians.

Unfortunately you cannot prove everything. What you can go from is the knowledge and history we have built up over centuries. Sometimes we have to realize that we are not the most intelligent person that has ever lived and listen to what other more intelligent people say or have said (not blindly of course but what they say may hold more weight). Also I can't prove God created the world but then how can a universe be created from absolutely nothing? Why is a butterfly or flower so perfect and beautiful? You have a lot more to lose if there isn't a God than I ever will for having believed there is one.

Still of course I agree with you that being a good person holds a lot of weight. God isn't going to abandon non-believers as He loves everyone.
 
The defamation in Christianity wasn't what i was going for but i see the point there. Marriage is IMO a sacred union i wont deny that i just think of it a little different. I am going by my personal belief of that knowledge you went a different rout but we can both be good people with a moral view though our moral ideals might not align exactly. I cannot say either you nor I are correct about everything i can just be as good a person i can be under what i believe. I do believe in the liberty's and freedoms of the people for all people no matter their race, sex, religion, creed, and yes their sexual views. I'm in no way saying you aren't I'm just trying to let you know my views. I have enjoyed out debate and hope i wasn't insulting. We both know however we wont change each others minds of course it is nice to see the point of view of the Christian people i hear about but never get to see.

I rather not speculate on the creation of the universe that would bring up a whole other debate. Neither of us can answer that one. I don't believe personally the universe just popped up from nothing though i cannot explain it it doesn't make me think a GOD made it. Just means i don't know. Though i do have a few theories about it :)
 
If you posted anti-gay or anti-christian posts here then I deleted them.

Why?

Well If I can respect your views about the world then you can respect our views in the Terms of Use for the site.

We promote diversity, equity, tolerance and freedom of will.

We don't promote hate speech, racism, or gender bashing.

I havn't handed out any bans ... this time.

Thanks.
 
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