Then congratulations, you successfully completed your first TV repair. You likely replaced more than what you needed and avoided electrocution. No one was looking down on you for being a 'hillbilly', the advice given was based on the info you provided. What you provided indicated a lack of knowledge in electronics repair, and the advice was tailored to that.
The cost of repair at a professional shop isn't just parts or labor. You're paying for a professional to use his experience to quickly and properly find your problem. It's also because even as an expert, they could be putting their lives on the line, one slip and closing the wrong circuit and you're done. There's no flickering lights and sudden x-ray view or frizzy smoking...