Solved! Is there an hdmi to usb(and I don't mean usb to hdmi), I want to use hdmi in and usb out on my laptop and then use it in obs

No, there is no HDMI to USD cable or adapter. You may want to provide some info exactly what capture card you are talking about using with the laptop. Sounds like you want to take the laptop video out, send it to another computer with a capture card to record, correct? What equipment do you have exactly?