[citation][nom]buddhav1[/nom]I live in America, and it sure would be great if everyone here would stop demonizing sex. maybe if there was some actual information given out about proper condom usage, instead of "ABSTINENCE OR YOUR LIFE WILL BE RUINED", we'd see less teen pregnancy, and maybe even less STDs. Teenagers these days have it worse than other generations, because they're caught in between being that innocent child, and an adult. the majority of them want that "Mature, Grown-Up, Adult" way of life, and they feel that by having sex, it'll help them to achieve that way of life. in some ways, it does. Having sex for the first time is a RIGHT OF PASSAGE. Just like driving a car, or being in your first relationship. American Education systems are seriously flawed when it comes to sexual education. For some reason, the majority of the older generation are squeamish when it comes to sex, yet they enjoyed that lifestyle of "sex, drugs, and rock & roll". they feel that they need to protect the younger generation, but at the same time, by being overprotective, and trying to force Teens into abstinence, you're just turning them on more to sex. Religion is completely mental here, don't even get me started on that. I'm glad that my parents were intelligent enough to talk to me about sex, and actually be straight with me about it, not just tell me that my junk will shrivel and die if i even so much as think something dirty. Long Story ShortRaging Hormones will not be held back by threats. Teach kids how to be safe, not attempt to scare them into abstinence.[/citation]
Like everything in life, it's the extreme of things that are the problem, not the thing itself. Extreme taboos are as bad as extreme liberations. And it's where we're at right now, extreme liberation of sexuality to a point it's overused and overexposed. Exposed to child's at an extremely early age. In form of toys(Bratz Dolls), music(Lady Gaga, Britney Spears) and clothes(mini-skirts and sexy underwears). We let that go, in the name of free speech and expression of our sexuality, then we turn back and do a witch hunts at pedophiles...Seriously, there's some serious thinking needed to be done here.