Wow, Ok the product is Neutrik NP3C-B 1/4in TRS Plug, and here are the pictures
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/www.markertek.com/product/np3c/neutrik-np3c-1-4-inch-trs-male-cable-plug.
It came seperate with all the parts when I tried putting them togethor it seems like it doesn't fit a 3.55mm jack for headphones maybe I bought the wrong thing?