Where to Report Infringement of Privacy Which Led To Router Being Fried

Have you reported to whoever manages the game servers you are playing?

Also, you should lock down your router from external access as well as changing all of your passwords on the router (for admin access and for your wireless network configuration).
 
No. Your family accesses the router internally. You want to disable external access to prevent an outsider from accessing your router.

What make/model is your router?