The problem most people have with the Muslim faith is that we find it medieval,it is degrading to women, violent and full of hate, to be fair it pretty much like the Christian faith was up until a few hundred years, lets face it we burnt people at the stake, sacked whole continents and passed some very barbaric laws all in the name of Christianity, even the Catholics and the protestants butchered each other all in the name of the "true faith"
But we as a people grew up, we managed to remove the church from politics and become secular societies. Muslim countries need to do the same, but the sad fact is you do NOT have hundreds of years for this to happen. Like it or not western countries are the true power in the world, and all the hate and bile that comes from the hard line Muslims won't be tolerated indefinitely, self preservation will ensure that sooner rather than later the west will say enough is enough and really put an end to it all, not out of hatred for Muslims but out of self preservation.
The Muslim principles will not dictate western politics, we get the blame here in the west for all the ills of the middle east, and whilst we have made some big mistakes (stealing half of Palestine for the Jews)most of the mistakes are made by the Muslim leaders, look at the royal family in Saudi, they live in outrageous wealth yet the poor have nothing, yet it is America that gets the blame for this, The Muslim faith currently spews out hatred, heck they even blow each other up for being Sunni or Shea, all in the name of some bloke from 14 centuries ago, he wasn't even divine, just a prophet
At the end of the day, become tolerant or you will be made tolerant. We can only be pushed so far