[citation][nom]jtt283[/nom]Gimme gimme gimme! Geez, our society has become so greedy. I'm fifty, and don't recall getting anything remarkable at any graduation (other than the diploma!). Neat tech, but those who want it can go earn it, instead of sticking their hands out for it. Here's your diploma kid, the world is yours.[/citation]
I don't think this is about what the graduate expects, but instead about what to give as a gift if you are invited to a party or if you feel compelled to generous to a loved one or friend. That's my personal perspective, anyway. Maybe I'm naive.