The saga continues:
So we last left off with my old motherboard somehow able to have the new card in the 2nd slot be active and read by GPUZ.
Bystander suggested making a bootable USB Flash drive, and I followed the instructions perfectly, and it worked, sort of.
I was able to boot into MS-DOS Win 98, and placed "atiflash" and the correct bios version on the flash drive.
I used atiflash to unlock and flashed the correct bios, I even took a picure with my camera phone to prove that it was successful, the whole old/new, reboot the PC prompt cause its finished.
So I boot into windows 7, load up GPUZ, and sure enough, GPUZ says its back to normal (has shader count, GPU Clock is running, everything that was blank before is now working again). Sweet, right?
So I remove the old video card from the 1st slot, and place the new HD6950 into it, everything's hooked up, boot up the computer. And it starts to boot, then dies, then starts to boot, and dies... over and over.
So I go, hmm, place the old video card back into slot 1, and new video card back into slot 2. Same problem, the PC won't boot... even with the new card in the 2nd slot.
So I removed the new card from slot 2, and left the old in slot 1.. and it booted right up.
So frustrated again, I decide its time to try my new motherboard/ram/cpu.. slot 1 is old video card, slot 2 is new... remember, this failed over and over again on the old motherboard.
And it worked again. Now I can boot into windows 7 in normal mode, have the card active, and see it in GPUZ (recall, before I could only boot into safe mode with the new card in slot 2, and GPUZ won't work in safe mode).
But I see something's wrong.. the GPU clock reads 625 Mhz where its supposed to be 840. So I downloaded the latest drivers from Ati, and installed them, now it shows 840, everything matches perfectly to the previous poster's picture of what his original HIS HD6950 icqQ X Turbo. In fact, time to take a picture of it using GPUZ. I'll update when the next problem arises.. for now I'm just going to reboot windows 7 with both cards in the slot and see what it does. (I'm learning baby steps.. this being hour 16 or so working on this.)