who it is that is hacking my phone as I have an ex-boyfriend who has tried to kill me two times and has been stalking me for over a year we have trial in 3 weeks I'm taking my phone to an IT Tech but I'm wanting to know how to find out who is controlling my phone my settings it seems I have two different screens this person is recording my text messages and my phone calls they are taking videos and pictures how do I find out who it is how do I get down to the source