You are a difficult patient.
Then it doesn't make sense. Components do not control where its audio goes. It it comes from HDMI (which it should), then it's up to the TV what do with it, and why would the TV discriminate if it comes from BluRay or DirectTV? Illogical!
I sense this is one of those problem that if I see it live, I would say something like "what? how come you have this connection here? and you go, isn't it how it works? and I go, well, I can't really tell you this is wrong but is not standard, so let me hook things up this OTHER way, and BAM! But I am not there
so I don't know what else to say.